Sunday, April 10, 2005

I feel bad letting min, yin and kaili read A Child called It now.

So far min and yin have really bad impressions on the mother, and I actually understand.. But I want the both of you (and kaili, if possible) that in the story, and in everywhere.. mothers care. They won't burn your arm, stuff a bar of soap down your throat, nor smash a diaper full of your baby brother's faeces in your face to make you feel crestfallen. For every action, there's an equal, opposite reaction. Whenever I remember what I did in violence, I remember the pain I inflicted on myself when I hurt others.

Believe me, you don't have to feel that the book is cruel, nor does the writer want pity. All he wants is to let people see how drastic a family can end up, and to treasure your own. I'm sorry the book made you cry yin, and I'm glad you didn't, min. Sigh, I hope it didn't bring tears to kaili, either.

But yes, I hope you understand. David Pelzer is no longer a child who suffered abuse. He's a new man, a new person who overcame his fear. When I finished both books (embarking on the 3rd one soon, heh ^^), I felt a sense warmth and comfort overwhelming me, knowing that even though I was once a child who got caned, beaten and stuff, but that's all over. I've learnt, and I'll still learnt to live life as it is, because at the end, our parents still love us as their own. =)

Now, if you're wondering what bullcrap I'm talking about, go read up this short story by Dave Pelzer: "A Child Called 'It'". That should clear things up a little. ^^;
PS: Don't come finding me if you get scary dreams after reading though! X.o;

anyhow whacked by gloria @ 8:05 pm






herself:



gloria sinclair chua;
nineteen;
08121988;
saggitarius;
dragon;
singaporean;
a photographer wannabe,
an aspiring hairstylist,
and a hopeless apparel designer.

would die for:



a score of 20 and below.
some form of world peace.
the Japanese language.
a Japanese dictionary.
learning guitar/piano/drums.
an mp3.
new earpieces.
a synthesizer/keyboard.
a Gibson Thunderbird IV bass. <3
an LCD monitor.
a laptop.
an art tablet.
a New Urban Male bag.
a nice jacket/sweater.
BMW X-5 SERIES!!@~!@~!!
a new pencilbox.
her own skateboard.
Wacom Graphire 3.
a small wooden manequinn.
new spectacles.
a pair of twin kodachi.
a trip to Florida.
a new house.
a refurbished room.
a walk-in wardrobe.
infinite haircuts.
red hair.
purple hair.
blue hair.
gold highlights.
red highlights.
white highlights.
coloured hair extensions.(OMGSOLIAN)
a new watch.

loathes:


coffee
bullies
gore
green
bad hair days
Adidas
vegetables
heights
snooty asswipes
tone-deaf "singers"
ingrates
flying critters
storms ._.
the dark
silence
liars
alter-ego o_O
attention seekers
people that give it to them
ultimatums

loves:


angmohs oho!
family
friends
SHOPPING
picking on bullies :D
literature
this and this and this and this
art
anime
music
musicians
ROCCKKK
surprises
lightsticks! <3
gaming~
the beach
KoF~
Ben & Jerry's
keeping promises
challenges hollerback here:


my solace:

aishah.
aliman.
bryan.
cassie.
cheryl.
daisy.
edmundooi.
eunice.
farhanah.
jiemin.
jerry.
josline.
kaitou!
kelly.
moonkian.
noel.
renny.
ron.
rona ♥
shosho.
tiffany.
travis.
koyo.
valerie!
weixiang.
william.
yanliang.
yaozhong.
yin ♥

- GazetteShop.
- NihilistGiraffe.
- DeviantART.
- Fark.com.
- lyrics.
- megatokyo.
- orisinal.
- endofworld.
- theresheis!
- theresheis!II

credits:

Blogger.
Photoshop.
Imageshack.
Google.com
Stock.
Stock #2.



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